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SLUTTY FOUNDER's avatar

you are such a gorgeous writer i can’t even take it! im stunned you managed to capture and articulate this lens so well, even as a man. i am even more astounded that nothing you said managed to piss me off LOL. and this conversation is always so delicate. yes to everything you said! the privilege isn’t in the hair—it’s in the ACTIVITY! nailed it yet again.

DW Long's avatar

Wow! Thank you for putting words to the gut reaction I had about the Ruby Bridges comment. And the rest of what you said, too. It's fascinating. You nailed it.

My husband went to Andover because the family that adopted him, one was a social worker type and one was faculty at the school. He was/is Menominee, got pulled off the reservation as a very young child and sent out there to an orphanage. He grew up around all that East Coast wealth and he still wears button-downs and khakis on the daily. What you wrote is spot on.

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